Tiz Wolf's Secret Dairy

With the world walking more into negativity and sadness, it is becoming more and more difficult for everyone to be happy. People generally confuse "being happy" with "overcoming sadness".  There are two ways of being happy, one is that we do something for the sake of being happy. Which means, we do something to get temporary happiness. We normally tend to depend on people or things for our happiness. When we don't get those things or have conflicts with those people we become unhappy. For example, If we think that cracking an exam or getting a promotion or getting a certain person to love us would make us happy. But this would just make us happy for a limited time. Even if we get those things, we will be sad again after sometime because then we will try to get better things than we just got to make us more happy. Then life becomes an endless struggle of trying to be happy. The reason behind this kind of struggle is that we think very less of ourselves...

Welcome to the second part of my series "love nest". I hope you do enjoy reading it and redefine the meaning of love. Most of us think that one sided love is full of struggle and sadness and what not. But that is because most of us do not understand what love is. First thing we need to understand is there is no such thing known as two sided love. Because we think that love is two sided, we start having expectations from each other. When the opposite person isn't able to make it up to us, it leads to conflicts and sometimes break-up. Love is always one sided and that is why we cannot ever control the other person's love. But what we can do is control our side of love. So what most of the people understand by the meaning of love is who makes us happy or what makes the other person happy. Which is wrong because it starts a conflict either of the situations. Like if we love someone just because they make us happy, then we become selfish and even if someday the relation...

I could only see one star through the clouds, In the sky full of darkness, underneath the sky laid a world full of lies and dishonesty, A world in which I no longer desired to survive, A world where love was just like any other word, A world where emotions were used as weapons, A world in which I lost the only beacon of light I ever had, A world where the only thing shining except the star were the little lights which stepped on lives to rise, I wished to be one of them, But that one beacon of light, held me from going into their dark world, The beacon of light which was no longer with me, Where darkness had overtook light, And there was no one to hold me, A world in which I no longer desired to survive.

Regrets are one of the biggest reasons behind the sadness in our daily life. Sometimes they just never seem to go away. Sometimes we feel so helpless, just thinking about the wrong decisions we took. But every situation has a positive and a negative side like a coin. Sometimes in life we take some decisions which upsets us or the people around us. Which we generally call it as a mistake. It becomes difficult for us to forget and we suffer for a long time by just thinking about it and thinking that we could have changed it and life would have been a bit better. Most of the time what happens is, we prepare for a situation and think that we would react to it in a certain way but when we are in that situation we are not able to control our actions. Therefore we end up acting in a completely different way. First thing we need to understand is that we need to be able to differentiate between things that we did to someone or someone did to us intentionally and things that happened unintent...

Welcome to my new series called as "Love Nest". Here we will try to understand what love actually is. This is the first part of the series. I hope you do enjoy reading it and redefine the meaning of love. Love the most wonderful feeling in this world. Love which is endless. For which people are ready to sacrifice their lives. We have read about some of the most wonderful love stories in world. Love a feeling which makes us feel like we are the luckiest people in the world. It makes us feel like we are on the 7th sky. Sometimes we are desperate for love and when someone breaks our heart we tend to hate love and that person.  We generally tend to confuse love with relationship. We often think that if we are in relationship with someone it is love, sometimes even if we do realize that there is no love between us we force ourselves to love the other person. Which creates even a bigger separation between the two of us. For example it happens most of the times, that sometimes ...

Overthinking, most of the websites and people would say that overthinking is a bad thing. The definition for the word overthinking is to think about (something) too much or for too long. If we look at scientists they overthink all the time. That is the reason they are able to discover new theories or things. Most of the people tend to think that overthinking is a bad thing or they tend to think of it as overthinking is one of the reasons behind their sadness. But the thing is thinking about the wrong thing is bad. Right thinking is not bad. Now the question is what is wrong thinking and what is right thinking. Because it is quiet possible that what you think is right someone else might think that it is wrong. So, right thinking is clear thinking. Having clear thoughts about something. Wrong thinking is having tangled thoughts about things.  In other words, thinking based on belief is wrong thinking and thinking based on reality is right thinking. Because beliefs are mostly b...